Monday, August 6, 2012

Victims of Generalization


Ladies, presenting the most misunderstood and generalized species on earth, do give a hearty applause for – Men! 


Here is the species that has so many subspecies that we forget them and generalize them with the minority yet most popular ones. There are some who are good at understanding while there are some who love to care. Some make you feel like you are the only one, while there are some who pay attention to each word from you. You do find men who are sensitive and are mature kids. If you start looking around, you would find the cute charmers, obedient momma’s boys, hot men, salt and pepper haired scotch loving gems and also typical knight in shining armor material. Yes, there is more to men than their heart breaking styles. They are cute, caring, sensitive, awesome listeners, amazing friends, great advisors, extreme adventurers, deep and profound thinkers, emotional fools and of course human beings.


They respect people and consider women as human beings. They have loads of things on their mind other than sex and alcohol.  They love conservations. They respect feelings and emotions. It is not a game for them. You would find that they know that you are equal to them and this is no reason to be ashamed, hurt or be furious about. They might hide things but when they are ready, they share themselves with you. They are keen observers, smart interpreters, great problem solvers and good at heart. Yes, they have a heart. They love being independent and having their space. They may or may not love clutter. They are varied in nature and diverse in interests but they are not bad.


Look around for the right people. You might come across these awesome men. They are there. Do not generalize them with their cheap imitations. There are true gems scattered everywhere. It is just a matter of investing time to get to know them. Just do not generalize them. It is an insult to them. Men are not like grocery shops that just because one did not provide you with good stuff you would never go there. They are also in process of growing up and maturing as you are. They make mistakes as you do and are pig headed as you are in accepting them. However, that is no reason to misunderstand them and boycott them. Help these victims of generalization.

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